Ten Bedroom Moves You've Never Tried

Ten Bedroom Moves You've Never Tried

Try these tips to unleash your wild side!
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No matter how hot your relationship is, everyone appreciates a few unexpected, sexy moves. Looking to try something new? Try these tricks in the sack to surprise him – and yourself…

1. The next time your guy jumps in the shower, join him! But to take this up a sexy notch, first turn out the lights. The sensation of hot water, skin on skin and experiencing each other without seeing each other will make him crazy, and your inhibitions fade to black…

2.       When you and your guy experience a little action, challenge him (and yourself) to stay quiet no matter what you do to each other. Just listening to your breathing can be very erotic, and trying to control yourself sans noise can set your pulse racing as the excitement builds.

3.       Have your man sit naked on a kitchen chair, then strut out wearing nothing but your best pair of stiletto boots and straddle him face-forward. The sight of you in nothing but those black spiky heels will leave him speechless!

4.       Instead of the missionary position, lie on your stomach and have your guy lie on top of you, entering you from behind. Close your legs so his are on the outside of yours, so he’s in the perfect position to hit your G-spot. This move will be mind-blowing for both of you.

5.       Take advantage of the hot weather! Have your guy lie naked on the bed. Put a small fan on your night table and then give him a rub down with ice cubes. The cool breeze will make the ice feel even colder, so he’ll be begging for your hot touch…

6.       Throughout the day, send your guy naughty one-word texts. By the end of the day, he’ll have a message that spells out exactly what you are going to do to him that night. This type of non-visual stimulation will leave you both desperate to be together and act out your message.

7.       For another “shower scene”, pick up a salt scrub in a stimulating citrus scent. Then invite him to join you in the shower for a “scrub down.” The steam and the rubbing action will get all your nerves tingling, blood flowing and bodies ready to go.

8.       Slide to the edge of your bed and put your feet on the ground. Then use your arms to lift yourself, just a little bit, off the bed.  When your guy enters you, have him stand still while you slide your body up and down. In addition to being very sexy, this will also give you a great ab-workout!

9.       When you’re on top, tell your man to keep absolutely still. Then instead of moving up and down, move your hips in a circular motion, almost as if you were “stirring” him (and you will). Every few minutes, alternate between clockwise & anti-clockwise, and see how long he can stand it. 

10.  Have your guy sit on the floor with his legs crossed.  Straddle him, but instead of moving up and down, wrap your legs around him and slowly rock back and forth.  This unexpected move will take you both by surprise.

Comments

Anonymous's picture

Boredom and routine is a real turn off. That is why we don't have sex very often!!

Anonymous's picture

You got to be kidding? Kids, work, chores and a woman's complicated thought process - all point to the suggestions above being no more than a fantasy in a guy's mind...Even the fellas who pull their weight can fawgetaboudit, that's why I don't even bother anymore...

Anonymous's picture

I am not supermom and I don't bow to the pressure that I have to do everything for my child or else I have failed as a mother. Yeah I get judged, but that's to bad, people will talk either way. My boyfriend and I make time for each other, despite all our responsibilities. You have to, because relationships tend to be the first thing that suffers in a household. No one ever said life was going to be easy, but if men and women don't do their share as 50% of a couple, then they have no one to blame aside from themselves. Nothing comes for free, everything requires work. We have done almost all of these and much more, I look forward to our bedroom life constantly - never a dull moment and I am forever thankful for that

Anonymous's picture

Having sex in the shower in the dark sounds like a tragedy waiting to happen. A sexy sexy hip breaking tragedy.

Anonymous's picture

It is not that you shouldn't bother anymore. Both people like it when the other puts in something with a little extra effort, shows there is no one quite like them in their whole lives. Stress is a part of life, and a part of his life too. And life is truthfully too short to spend it 88% fully throttled and stressed out for what. Enjoy the time you have with each other.
Nobody says you have to memorize the Kama Sutra. But trust me, a little special thought goes a log way.

Anonymous's picture

Sounds all Lke alot of Fun. Will Love to Try all these New Ones Thanks

Anonymous's picture

Who wrote this garbage? Things we've never tried? What a joke. I can't believe I bothered reading this list past the first two. Shower sex is nothing new unless you're, what, a virgin? And with the lights off sounds like a preplanned trip to the ER. If you're unfortunate to have roommates, family, or small children around(I've got all three), then the quiet game more often than not. Boots, stilettos, trench coats... it's not shocking after the first time. Number five happens about 95% of the time for us to both finish. Since when is sexting new? Maybe I'm just younger than all yall. The ice cube thing never goes over well with even the most adventurous of my past partners. And all of these positions are things we just do, because it's normal and common and second nature. I hope the author of this article is embarrassed by this poor quality 'advice'.

Anonymous's picture

Boredom and routine is boring. Stop being a bore and create some spice in your sex life. Sex with you partner should be safe, sexy, exhilarating and inviting. Make it so!!!

Anonymous's picture

6, 8, 9, and 10 are the bomb!

Anonymous's picture

ahahaha, your hilarios!!! so true though =)

Anonymous's picture

Just saying from a guys perspective I've been in situation #1 and #2 and they are by far some of the best memories/ sexiest moments I've have with my GF. (however having the lights on was much safer, simply close your eyes if you need to add some mystery)

Anonymous's picture

For an article titled "10 bedroom moves you've never tried", I was expecting some really good stuff, unique and exciting, and things that I truly haven't ever tried before. WOW What a disappointment! Since when is showering with your partner a new idea? I've showered with my husband at least once a week (if not more) for the past 11 years that we've been together. Sometimes we have the lights off, sometimes on, often times it's with one or two candles. We scrub each others bodies, and enjoy sensually exploring as we go along. So - there goes #1 and 7 off the list, because they are definitely NOT moves that we've never tried. For many couples with kids, #2 is MANDATORY! You don't want the kids hearing you, so being silent and only hearing the sound of our breathing is definitely NOT a new idea. #3 Stilettos, thigh high boots, 6" platform heels...you name it, I've done them all. Not necessarily while he sits on a kitchen chair naked, but close enough. NOT a new idea. #4 - Yet again, another thing I've already done, still do, done many times over. Either the person who wrote this article is really young and inexperienced, or they really aren't having sex...#5 - Ice cubes, fans, hot weather, A/C blowing on us, Been there, Done that, NOT new. #6 We don't send one word texts. The idea may be new, but it's kinda dumb. What we DO partake in is sending one another messages throughout the day that will make one another start to look forward to the evening ahead. But doing it one word at a time? Ehhh - not really a unique or exciting idea. #9 - Love this one....but, I've been doing it for the past 5 years, so again - not new, not unique, not different. #10 - Why exactly does he have to be on the floor? This works with him sitting on the bed, too. But, again - rocking back and forth, rather than moving up and down, YAWN...old news again. As for #8 - - Why the hell would any woman want to do reverse push ups while having sex? Because this is basically what you've described.
So, overall - 1 out of 10 that I haven't tried before. I'd say that would make this article a FAIL! And, not to mention the fact that the one I haven't done is the one I have NO desire to do! I want sex to be hot and steamy and fun and fabulous and long lasting....which means I don't want to have to concentrate on my abdominal muscles staying strong enough to lift myself up off the bed and able to stay strong while I'm sliding up and down.
After reading this, I feel as though I should be the one writing an article on what to do in the bedroom! My husband and I have an AMAZING sex life, and we sometimes look around at other couples when we are out socializing, or even just when we go for a walk together, and we always say to one another "I KNOW that couple is NOT doing what we are doing in the bedroom! And THAT couple over there aren't having 1.5 hour lovemaking sessions like us, and especially those who have been married as long as we have....those couples are not having as much sex as us, nor does it last as long as ours, nor is it as hot and steamy and exciting and different all the time, the way ours is!
The reason why I was even attracted to this article was because my husband and I always encourage one another to bring a new idea into the bedroom, so when I read the title of this article I thought I'd be able to get some new ideas to try out later tonight. NO SUCH LUCK :-(

Anonymous's picture

Boredom and routine is a real turn off. That is why we don't have sex very often!!

Anonymous's picture

You got to be kidding? Kids, work, chores and a woman's complicated thought process - all point to the suggestions above being no more than a fantasy in a guy's mind...Even the fellas who pull their weight can fawgetaboudit, that's why I don't even bother anymore...

Anonymous's picture

I am not supermom and I don't bow to the pressure that I have to do everything for my child or else I have failed as a mother. Yeah I get judged, but that's to bad, people will talk either way. My boyfriend and I make time for each other, despite all our responsibilities. You have to, because relationships tend to be the first thing that suffers in a household. No one ever said life was going to be easy, but if men and women don't do their share as 50% of a couple, then they have no one to blame aside from themselves. Nothing comes for free, everything requires work. We have done almost all of these and much more, I look forward to our bedroom life constantly - never a dull moment and I am forever thankful for that

Anonymous's picture

Having sex in the shower in the dark sounds like a tragedy waiting to happen. A sexy sexy hip breaking tragedy.

Anonymous's picture

It is not that you shouldn't bother anymore. Both people like it when the other puts in something with a little extra effort, shows there is no one quite like them in their whole lives. Stress is a part of life, and a part of his life too. And life is truthfully too short to spend it 88% fully throttled and stressed out for what. Enjoy the time you have with each other.
Nobody says you have to memorize the Kama Sutra. But trust me, a little special thought goes a log way.

Anonymous's picture

Sounds all Lke alot of Fun. Will Love to Try all these New Ones Thanks

Anonymous's picture

Who wrote this garbage? Things we've never tried? What a joke. I can't believe I bothered reading this list past the first two. Shower sex is nothing new unless you're, what, a virgin? And with the lights off sounds like a preplanned trip to the ER. If you're unfortunate to have roommates, family, or small children around(I've got all three), then the quiet game more often than not. Boots, stilettos, trench coats... it's not shocking after the first time. Number five happens about 95% of the time for us to both finish. Since when is sexting new? Maybe I'm just younger than all yall. The ice cube thing never goes over well with even the most adventurous of my past partners. And all of these positions are things we just do, because it's normal and common and second nature. I hope the author of this article is embarrassed by this poor quality 'advice'.

Anonymous's picture

Boredom and routine is boring. Stop being a bore and create some spice in your sex life. Sex with you partner should be safe, sexy, exhilarating and inviting. Make it so!!!

Anonymous's picture

6, 8, 9, and 10 are the bomb!

Anonymous's picture

ahahaha, your hilarios!!! so true though =)

Anonymous's picture

Just saying from a guys perspective I've been in situation #1 and #2 and they are by far some of the best memories/ sexiest moments I've have with my GF. (however having the lights on was much safer, simply close your eyes if you need to add some mystery)

Anonymous's picture

For an article titled "10 bedroom moves you've never tried", I was expecting some really good stuff, unique and exciting, and things that I truly haven't ever tried before. WOW What a disappointment! Since when is showering with your partner a new idea? I've showered with my husband at least once a week (if not more) for the past 11 years that we've been together. Sometimes we have the lights off, sometimes on, often times it's with one or two candles. We scrub each others bodies, and enjoy sensually exploring as we go along. So - there goes #1 and 7 off the list, because they are definitely NOT moves that we've never tried. For many couples with kids, #2 is MANDATORY! You don't want the kids hearing you, so being silent and only hearing the sound of our breathing is definitely NOT a new idea. #3 Stilettos, thigh high boots, 6" platform heels...you name it, I've done them all. Not necessarily while he sits on a kitchen chair naked, but close enough. NOT a new idea. #4 - Yet again, another thing I've already done, still do, done many times over. Either the person who wrote this article is really young and inexperienced, or they really aren't having sex...#5 - Ice cubes, fans, hot weather, A/C blowing on us, Been there, Done that, NOT new. #6 We don't send one word texts. The idea may be new, but it's kinda dumb. What we DO partake in is sending one another messages throughout the day that will make one another start to look forward to the evening ahead. But doing it one word at a time? Ehhh - not really a unique or exciting idea. #9 - Love this one....but, I've been doing it for the past 5 years, so again - not new, not unique, not different. #10 - Why exactly does he have to be on the floor? This works with him sitting on the bed, too. But, again - rocking back and forth, rather than moving up and down, YAWN...old news again. As for #8 - - Why the hell would any woman want to do reverse push ups while having sex? Because this is basically what you've described.
So, overall - 1 out of 10 that I haven't tried before. I'd say that would make this article a FAIL! And, not to mention the fact that the one I haven't done is the one I have NO desire to do! I want sex to be hot and steamy and fun and fabulous and long lasting....which means I don't want to have to concentrate on my abdominal muscles staying strong enough to lift myself up off the bed and able to stay strong while I'm sliding up and down.
After reading this, I feel as though I should be the one writing an article on what to do in the bedroom! My husband and I have an AMAZING sex life, and we sometimes look around at other couples when we are out socializing, or even just when we go for a walk together, and we always say to one another "I KNOW that couple is NOT doing what we are doing in the bedroom! And THAT couple over there aren't having 1.5 hour lovemaking sessions like us, and especially those who have been married as long as we have....those couples are not having as much sex as us, nor does it last as long as ours, nor is it as hot and steamy and exciting and different all the time, the way ours is!
The reason why I was even attracted to this article was because my husband and I always encourage one another to bring a new idea into the bedroom, so when I read the title of this article I thought I'd be able to get some new ideas to try out later tonight. NO SUCH LUCK :-(

annette's picture

ok my bf and i are going to married next summer but our sex life seems to be a bit boring and he is like the minute man i dont want to hurt his feelings but i need help in this area we have had 3 somes but it seems when the other guy takes over my bf has no idea what to do. we kiss and then when he gets hard its wham bam thank you mam then when i dont get off he uses the vibrator on me which is not a bad thing but i want to do my thing while he is still in me, i need some helpfull advise

Dave's picture

I stumbled on this a couple of years before my Sue died of a brain haemorrhage. We had a LOT of fun with it and I have passed it on through various threads to about a million people since. It takes couples to a whole new level of intimacy, sexual self confidence and women describe it as an addiction. Try it.

Rob's picture

Chores and kids eating into your time for intimacy? Then its time
to get the hubby to help with housework and turn that into playtime
as well. Trust me, this works ... share cooking a meal and tease
the guy by wearing skimpy clothes or starting a minor food fight.
I am a guy and believe me this really can work. Doing household chores together can be great fun if you are playful and use some imagination.

Rob's picture

Kick the ice thing up a notch by using ice during oral sex or
inserting a couple cubes inside before penetration ..
this may not be new to some but to those who have never tried
it .... the cold makes a guy harder and the cold delays his orgasm.

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