Signs He Has a Crush on You

Signs He Has a Crush on You

Signs He Has a Crush on You

Is he interested? Seven ways to tell
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Some things never change: your monthly credit card bill, Gisele’s killer hairdo, and the way a guy acts around a woman he likes. That’s right—men are incredibly conspicuous when they have a crush on a female (and we like that!). 

Here’s what to look for if you think he might have a crush on you:

He smiles—a lot. He flashes a big grin every time he sees you, no matter what the situation. (He could be in his boss’ office being shouted at, but if he glimpses you through the window he’ll still give you that melting smile.) Try returning it.

Lots of eye contact. He is always trying to catch your eye, and is always the first to make eye contact and hold it. This could be in a bar, at Starbucks, or across from you in the cafeteria.

He talks about you to his friends, family or co-workers. If his friends, co-workers or family members seem to already know you the first time you meet them, this means he is talking, talking, talking about you. When you have a crush on someone, don’t you love the sound of his name? Well, men are no different. If he’s talking you up, it’s a very good sign that he has a crush.

He is willing to do whatever you ask. Need a ride to pick up your car? Paper for the printer? Change for the vending machine? He has got whatever you need and is ready, willing and able to provide it to you.

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He has a different voice just for you. You know what I mean: it’s softer, kinder, more enticing. We do the same thing, so watch for this. It may even be so obvious that you notice people around the two of you smiling when they hear him using “your” voice.

He goes out of his way to see you or seems to pop up everywhere. You go to the cafeteria at lunch, and he’s there. You’re shopping for chips and salsa, and he’s there. Now, this could also mean he’s a stalker, so be careful—but don’t let it spook you. Didn’t you know your crush’s schedule in high school so you could be lingering near his locker? It’s the same thing here. He is looking for opportunities to be near you.

His habits change. He doesn’t drink coffee but now he’s ordering a tall latte every morning right around the time you do. He used to be in at 7:30, but now you find yourself walking in to work with him at 8:30 every morning. Everyone knows he runs to keep in shape, but now he’s on the elliptical next to yours at the gym. He’s looking for opportunities to get closer!

Related Video: Signs He's Just Not That Interested in You

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Anonymous's picture

*Sigh* I was SO blind in highschool...

Anonymous's picture

there is this one guy i have been friends with since kindergarten. it is almost valentines day. i am hoping that we start dating by then since all the rest of our friends are madlyin love with their bf's and gf's

Anonymous's picture

But what if he has a girlfriend can he still like u?

Anonymous's picture

about the eye contact... yeah definate signal! He likes me, i know it. ;)

Anonymous's picture

I like this one person and he is always trying to hug me.

Anonymous's picture

Thank you.i have one more question.should i mak the first move or let him?

Anonymous's picture

Dude i have the same prob:/ im thinking to but then im scared to too... He liked me then it ended up making me like him:O its been going in a cycle over and over for the past two years, he likes me one day, then the next he doesnt, it kinda weirds me out! Some kne should answere this Q cause she has a point, and ive been asking the same question too..

Anonymous's picture

What should I do if he likes someone else and he's a grade older than me.

Anonymous's picture

Can someone help me in understanding?
My boss makes eye contact and he caught me watching him quite a few times and he started talking a little bit and he even jokes - for someone who never talked to women, never been friendly to women etc... I am crushing hard and strong on my boss. He is 35 years (single) and I am 25 years (I am divorced). He has a reputation of hard worker and he never had flings. For him, his work is his worship.
:( I am totally sad about this situation.
K.R.

Anonymous's picture

The first three signs are more frequent around me

Anonymous's picture

OMG im in the same freakin boat as u girl!! Only he's 45 divorced and im 20 lol i asked him if he thought age mattered in a relationship and he told me not at all and now he knows and he stares at me smiles all the time finds little ways to be next to me starts all our conversations messin with me hes such a cutie and i hope he like sme back all my other co-workers say he treats me different than all the other girls and he winks at me and ive asked everyone else if he's ever done that to them and they say yes i hope hope hope he likes me this guy is freakin perfect!!

Anonymous's picture

*Sigh* I was SO blind in highschool...

Anonymous's picture

there is this one guy i have been friends with since kindergarten. it is almost valentines day. i am hoping that we start dating by then since all the rest of our friends are madlyin love with their bf's and gf's

Anonymous's picture

But what if he has a girlfriend can he still like u?

Anonymous's picture

about the eye contact... yeah definate signal! He likes me, i know it. ;)

Anonymous's picture

I like this one person and he is always trying to hug me.

Anonymous's picture

Thank you.i have one more question.should i mak the first move or let him?

Anonymous's picture

Dude i have the same prob:/ im thinking to but then im scared to too... He liked me then it ended up making me like him:O its been going in a cycle over and over for the past two years, he likes me one day, then the next he doesnt, it kinda weirds me out! Some kne should answere this Q cause she has a point, and ive been asking the same question too..

Anonymous's picture

What should I do if he likes someone else and he's a grade older than me.

Anonymous's picture

Can someone help me in understanding?
My boss makes eye contact and he caught me watching him quite a few times and he started talking a little bit and he even jokes - for someone who never talked to women, never been friendly to women etc... I am crushing hard and strong on my boss. He is 35 years (single) and I am 25 years (I am divorced). He has a reputation of hard worker and he never had flings. For him, his work is his worship.
:( I am totally sad about this situation.
K.R.

Anonymous's picture

The first three signs are more frequent around me

Anonymous's picture

OMG im in the same freakin boat as u girl!! Only he's 45 divorced and im 20 lol i asked him if he thought age mattered in a relationship and he told me not at all and now he knows and he stares at me smiles all the time finds little ways to be next to me starts all our conversations messin with me hes such a cutie and i hope he like sme back all my other co-workers say he treats me different than all the other girls and he winks at me and ive asked everyone else if he's ever done that to them and they say yes i hope hope hope he likes me this guy is freakin perfect!!

Anonymous's picture

wat if the person you love doesnt love you?and he has anothero someone in his life,would you continue to love him?please help me.

Anonymous's picture

I hav sam props i jst cry out my eyes

Yolo's picture

So if a guy gives me flowers at your performance should I assume he likes me or is he just being really kind? He works at the coffee shop and has given me a few free coffees before. Once he sees me he smiles real big and says 'heeeyyyy!~' He helped me get my shit together for school, constantly reminded me about it too. I don't have his phone number or his Facebook. He glances at me a lot sometimes.(at my performance he did that...A LOT) someone help me.....it's killing me..

Anonymous 's picture

Wht if the guy makes a reason to hug u and he calls u his sister

georgia peaches's picture

It is possible sometimes people might find something they like about both individuals that they couldn`t find with one but be careful you really have to be ready for the next move bit to be playing both at the same time isn`t cooldo a little p.i. work before really moving forward

georgia peaches's picture

First of all have you told him about your feelings and second has he told hou he didn`t love you or did you assume because he was with someone else

cupid's picture

A guy asked me out and i read this to kinda get an idea about how long he's likes me. If these are true he's liked me for a while. But also to add on to these signs boys will also say hi to you every time they pass you by.

Janine's picture

On my gosh, really. I had no idea and now when i think about it, all those signs were there. I'd known him since high school, went out on a couple of dates then i moved away because he confused me. Then 10yrs later, im back in my home town, our eyes meet and the chemistry is there still, but we are married to different partners. I live in the city now. The last time i visited my home town, he showed up unexpectedly at a friends house where i was but he stayed in his vehicle and i dnt think he saw me???? Do i still think about him? yes! Do i still have feelings for him?, Yes and always will.

Anon's picture

This guy I like winked at me and smiled for a full 8 seconds without breaking eye contact but he likes someone else. What does this mean??

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