Keep Things Hot in a Long Distance Relationship

Keep Things Hot in a Long Distance Relationship

How-to keep him thinking about you
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Long distance relationships are a troublesome for most couples as it is difficult to maintain that fiery passion when you have zero intimacy. Keeping things steamy while you are miles away can be a challenge, but if you are up to it, it could also be a lot of fun. Although, the real thing is always better, a little teasing and preview of what is waiting for him when you reunite will have him thinking about you non-stop.

Take a Frisky Picture
In a recent interview, Hilary Duff dished on how she keeps things hot with her hockey hubby Mike Comrie when he is at away games. She sends him naughty photos of herself in compromising positions. To keep herself safe from scandal she always crops her face out of any photos that may land her in the headlines. So, take note from this former Disney hot-shot and make sure you don’t end up in a scandal yourself. When he receives your sexy photos he will have something to think about (YOU!) when he is alone at night.

Use Your Webcam
Programs like Skype and iChat are great alternatives to texting, calling or chatting. Seeing each other’s faces and hearing your voice will help keep your connection stronger. If you want to take it up a notch, try working in a little strip tease to get him excited. Or when he calls, be waiting in your sexiest lingerie, when your video screen pops up and he sees what you are wearing he will be completely turned on.

Send Him a Sext
Sexting (sexy text messages) has revolutionized the dating game. Send him a naughty message when you know he is at work or when he least expects it. The surprise will catch him off guard and have him day dreaming of you at his desk. Remind him of a night when he really turned you on and get specific! The memory will ignite the passion he felt during that unforgettable night and he won’t be able to stop thinking about it.  

Watch a XXX Movie
Call him late at night when he is in bed and suggest you both tune into the same naughty film. Experiencing it together will be as though you are in the same room. Talk about the film and don’t be afraid to let him know how much it turns you on. Knowing that you are getting excited will make him melt.  

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Anonymous's picture

I've been in a long distance relationship for a few years now (he works out of town until late winter) and I would never send a guy a sext. The potential for trouble is way too high, it could get sent to the wrong person, one of his friends could check the message, he might be in public when the message comes through, what happens if the relationship goes wrong and he has dirty pics and messages on his phone... the list goes on. I find that the anticipation of what we'll do when we meet again can be better than any pretend fix can have.

Anonymous's picture

you can decide on a time to do it/when he's alone. There's albums with passwords etc. This is a great idea w/ being careful. She has a smart idea. I know in hockey you are away from your spouse 9 months every year and this lets them be reminded of you!

Anonymous's picture

i can not agree more! everyone thinks im crazy

Anonymous's picture

I've been in a long distance relationship for a few years now (he works out of town until late winter) and I would never send a guy a sext. The potential for trouble is way too high, it could get sent to the wrong person, one of his friends could check the message, he might be in public when the message comes through, what happens if the relationship goes wrong and he has dirty pics and messages on his phone... the list goes on. I find that the anticipation of what we'll do when we meet again can be better than any pretend fix can have.

Anonymous's picture

you can decide on a time to do it/when he's alone. There's albums with passwords etc. This is a great idea w/ being careful. She has a smart idea. I know in hockey you are away from your spouse 9 months every year and this lets them be reminded of you!

Anonymous's picture

i can not agree more! everyone thinks im crazy

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